40th Wedding Anniversary

Where does love come from and how is it nourished and protected? Looking out into the future in the same direction, building a home together, repenting and forgiving, having fun and taking time to say I love you by words and actions, builds love. The repentance comes in when we don't do the kind of things that build and protect love. No wonder our knees get bad in our old age!
I suppose "our theme" could be the poem President Willard Smith Ray quoted when he sealed us in the Idaho Falls Temple:


"Love”

I love you,
Not only for what you are,
But for what I am
When I am with you.

I love you,
Not only for what
You have made of yourself,
But for what
You are making of me.

I love you
For the part of me
That you bring out;
I love you
For putting your hand
Into my heaped-up heart
And passing over
All the foolish, weak things
That you can’t help
Dimly seeing there,
And for drawing out
Into the light
All the beautiful belongings
That no one else had looked
Quite far enough to find.

I love you because you
Are helping me to make
Of the lumber of my life
Not a tavern
But a temple;
Out of the works
Of my every day
Not a reproach
But a song.

I love you
Because you have done
More than any creed
Could have done
To make me good
And more than any fate
Could have done
To make me happy.
You have done it
Without a touch,
Without a word,
Without a sign.
You have done it
By being yourself.
Perhaps that is what
("Marriage means", my edit)
Being a friend means,
After all.

Roy Croft